SS told DH that he is getting engaged this week. 

As usual, SS bs'ed DH about all of this, telling him months ago that he planned on proposing to his GF but that he wanted her to meet "the family" prior to the proposal (choke); SS said there would be arrangements made for DH and I to meet the GF. I totally get that I'm not important in that mix; I don't expect to be. But, once again, DH was left out. Just quit with the lying and dangling carrots, guys. Just quit. SS has met the GF's parents; GF has met Bitter Mommy and SD. DH is the dog poop on the side of the road (DH could have easily flown out there had he been invited). 

Next up: Another wedding. This time, likely NOT on Bitter Mommy's turf, which will make her very very uncomfortable. She won't have a posse of church people there to glare at us. I don't give a crap. I can be an actress and just be there to support my husband. And then be done with this BS. At least this stage of it.