I don’t post much anymore, mostly because Spawn isn’t even really a thought in my mind and DH and I are just existing as roommates.  His choice, he knows at any point he can come talk to me, and I will be there to listen, but instead he chooses avoidance.
As for Spawn, I was told she had another child and finally married the baby daddy, good for her, I guess.  She’s also very ummm politically charged I guess could be one way of saying it, so I guess she leans a certain way and her whole lifestyle revolves around that.
Interestingly enough last time DH spoke with her she talked about setting up her own business, basically scamming people for solar power cleaning and maintenance.  Now I say scam because to me it’s a scam, but I digress.  Turns out she and baby daddy did just that, set up a scammy solar panel cleaning and “maintenance” LLC.  I was sent her bio on their website, and it claims she is an expert in all things solar and has been working in this field for the past 12 years.  Wow so she started this illustrious career when she was the ripe old age of 16….funny she was still living with us when she was 16 and didn’t even have a license let alone any job.  Her bio reads as if she went to college and has a degree in electronic and mechanical engineering, which is weird because last DH was told by her, is that she might go back to college at some point, but I know getting a full degree takes 4 years and this is the same person who was pity passed out of high school and basically  made her money doing OF.    The rates they are offering are 365.00 for one year or maintenance, which includes one cleaning, 950.00 for one year of maintenance and 2 cleanings, or 2000.00 for the year with four cleanings.  I mean I don’t know about any of you, but I think I’m gonna pass on this one, but it will be interesting to see when they start getting sued in small claims court. 

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