I don't even know what to do.... I have had HIGH conflict with SD for over a decade, and things just get worse as I set boundaries of disengaging. I'm really trying hard to disengage, and not have to communicate with SD30, that has been nothing but a tragedy for too long. I said, "stick with disengagement", that's so not easy. If you're dealing with a narcissist and a DH who is also a narcissist, you're going to have a really hard time sticking. Have any of you dealt yet with as SD (which seems to be the highest conflict), whom you really don't get along with, who gets pregnant and demands attention? This girl is crazy, and I'm not kidding... How do I get excited when there's so much conflict already?? I feel like I'm being sucked into something that I claimed not healthy? I'm venting big time... is this really how I have to live the rest of my life?