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The users are gonna use
The younger diabla is around and DH is having to deal with her. He's feeling blue. Can't say I blame him, she's a handful, to put it nicely.
I learned that BM's "friend" from our neighborhood asked YSD27 for a teeny, tiny favor. (I recently posted about running into this person, who seems like a regular person, not crazy like BM.)
Not only does YSD not want to do the favor, she didn't even bother responding to this person's message. Keep in mind that this person and their family has done MANY favors for BM, BM who YSD claims undying loyalty to, yet YSD can't be bothered to respond to their message, must less do a small favor in return. Typical.
Also, in other news, DH told me that BM messaged him. We have a friend who's name rhymes with BM's name so I was so confused as to why this friend was asking DH for money. Lol
"OOOooooh, your talking about BM. Now, it makes sense!" It's been quite some time since BM has pulled a stunt like demanding DH shell out. Keep in mind the Skids aged out years ago and there is no outstanding financial anything. BM could pay herself but she doesn't waaaaaant to. Lol
Thanks for letting me vent. It never ends.
The good news is DH said "NO" to BM.
Last edited by Meera (2/20/2026 9:49 am)
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- LittleTypeAmy
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Re: The users are gonna use
I just posted a similiar response on your prior post about SKIDS being users, don't want to be a broken record, but then again these skids repeat these behavior patterns so much that that's it feels like,,the same song over and over on repeat. Typical SDiabla fashion, in that they automatically expect everyone to "be there" for them, to fall over themselves to do all these favors for them just so life is more comfortable and easier for them, yet they cant be bothered to do the same for anyone else.
Or just show themselves to be totally ungrateful after any favors you have done to attempt to help them. Gotta love the "reward" Ive received from SD in form of crowing at me how I neverr accepted her, and never did this , should have done and need to do for her,,etc, IF she thought that little fit was supposed to entice me to revert back to bending over backwards to be some kind of a resouce to her, then she is dead wrong. It only drove me way and turned me off to her that much more. Who actuallly wants to go any extra mile for someone who probably never appreciated it anyway. Now, I have no desire to worry about managing her comfort any longer, since now I Look back on my efforts as a waste of time now, which is was
Also no wonder as to whom the Diablas modeled their behavior from, Good old BM still being a grifer and a user begging your DH for cash, it really never ends....
Last edited by LittleTypeAmy (2/24/2026 8:10 am)
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Yeah...I've been through the cycle of putting on the big wonderful vacation, spending a lot on SKIDS wants only to have it ALWAYS slapped back in my face. I hit the dunnzo button after one particularly unpleasant dinner - they were absolute brats, toxic and the whole thing was shameful. That was the first time I finally said no more ever again. I walked away that evening from SKID 1 and never looked back- I let DH do what he wants but I contribute zero. I think they thought their list of demands and shaming me for my existence would "get me in line." It actually just let it all be front and center at how ugly they are and how horrible they treat me. At the time it was horrendous but over time it's been a gift that allowed me to just cut these fish loose back into their toxic pond where I no longer go.
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