SD64 had a seizure today.  She's in the hospital, still quite confused and with a broken shoulder from the fall.  The nurse says she's not alert enough for visitors.

Last time I wrote, I'd been told SD64 was renting the condo we bought for her to 2 men.  The daughter she lives part time with, C, swears that's not true tho SD64 allows C's baby daddy to rest there after therapy sessions for broken ankle.  We went by late last night and saw no cars in the designated parking spaces tho a light was on.  I had told SD64 I was putting it on the market next month.  My 2 bio kids are adamant that I go ahead.

So, things are in limbo right now.  DH88 worries about her and wants to do something tho I don't know what that would be.  SD64 has strained relations with her other 2 kids, K and M.  I texted M the details and asked her to forward the info to K.   I also texted SD's 2 brothers.  DH88 wants to call C endlessly for info but with his dementia, has trouble calling anybody.  I know his fantasy back in the day would have been for us to swoop into the hospital and keep a vigil. But, he can't even walk from the parking lot to the entrance without resting, much less long corridors.  Plus, I think it's time for SD64's kids to step up.  I feel like we have done more than our share over the years.  I realize her kids have their own busy lives with demanding jobs and kids and they have justifiably strained relations with her.  But, she's their mom.  So sad, too bad, don't tell me how tough it is to care for a parent, I lived it.

Stay tuned, I promise, the drama never stops around here.