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2/11/2026 10:01 pm  #1


And the SS16 part is over

DH dropped off SS16's stuff today.
BM had the audacity to email DH saying he was in breach of the court order. DH spat back how (she is a beeyotch) and that she was in breach of the court order when she kept SS16 during DH's time in the beginning of this mess.

In her email she complained because DH texted SS16 from his work number to say he was dropping off SS16's things, and BM didn't know that number so she hadn't blocked it yet. She told him if he told SS16 from a "random" number that he was bringing his stuff, why hadn't he done it yet? DH also sent SS16 more stuff, like the statement he made in court, but judging by BM's message to DH, DH was blocked before it made it there.

Anyway DH went and dropped the stuff off, a whole truck full. He even sent the TV which I would've kept for DS6 to play Nintendo on because sometimes he likes to game by himself but DH just wanted to be rid of it. I told DH I'm sure it'll be up on the buy n sell pages before the morning.

Not sure when it all got taken in but I drove past on my way home from DD5's extracurriculars tonight and they weren't there. Wonder if SS16 actually gets to keep any of it.

 

2/12/2026 1:58 am  #2


Re: And the SS16 part is over

It must be freeing that the "gotta be nice" gloves are off and BM's backside is bared as what she is and has been the whole time.  There is no need to do anything but call her what she is.  No need to ignore reality. No need for pleasantries.  No need to be anything but direct and unequivocal in any communication.


If you can't listen, learn, & think, you will have to feel. -  WLR
 

2/12/2026 9:44 am  #3


Re: And the SS16 part is over

So sorry to hear all of this. I can't believe what this horrible woman has put all of you through and her lies are sickening. To lie about something like this. I really feel for all of you for having been placed in the middle of all of this. She has audacity to still send verbal garbage to DH after all SHE'S put everyone through. They're all in this mess because of her. Can she be blocked at some point, I would be infuriated to even talk to her or ever see her...

Last edited by Yesterdays (2/12/2026 9:44 am)

 

2/12/2026 10:01 am  #4


Re: And the SS16 part is over

I feel real bad for your DH living a great big lie for years. Hope communication is done now and he can start healing.

 

2/15/2026 1:50 pm  #5


Re: And the SS16 part is over

Yesterdays wrote:

So sorry to hear all of this. I can't believe what this horrible woman has put all of you through and her lies are sickening. To lie about something like this. I really feel for all of you for having been placed in the middle of all of this. She has audacity to still send verbal garbage to DH after all SHE'S put everyone through. They're all in this mess because of her. Can she be blocked at some point, I would be infuriated to even talk to her or ever see her...

Yeah we're done with her. She's blocked

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