Recap of my last Steptalk blog:

My SO has 2 daughters in their late 20s with BM1 and 2 sons with BM2. The daughters were moved out of state by their BM when they were maybe 4 and 6. Both have emotional problems but i’m not sure what their diagnoses are. SD26 has lived in our state on and off a few times since turning 17, but is currently living with BM1 in her state with her baby. She and the father have already split up. SD28 has not lived in this state since about age 6.

SD28 recently called SO stating her car died and she is about to become homeless. SO told her he would buy a new vehicle but she has to move in with him. He told her she can have his master bedroom and he will just stay at my house. His 21-year-old son lives with him fulltime and he has 50/50 of his 15-year-old.

Well, SO sent the money to SD28 and she bought the car. SO borrowed the money from family to pay for it. I sort of think SD, having the car now, may renege on the deal to move here. I think her moving here is a bad idea. I didn’t plan to have SO and I live together until he gets his kids sorted. Also, SD’s behavior and emotional issues are hard to tolerate. Plus BM2 will likely have something to say about SO having custody of SS15 but not actually being in the home with him.

Anyway, i’ll keep you guys posted. Thanks for doing the new site, Aniki!

Last edited by Rumplestiltskin (8/21/2025 1:03 pm)